pretty girls with ugly guys.

this has been bothering me for a while. i see so many really attractive girls with fuck ass niggas or regular ass dudes with no sense of style. i understand it's hard to be choosy in college, but damn, it's NOT shallow to have standards. i know some girls who justify their boyfriends by their personality, and yeah, personality has a lot to do with whether you stay with someone or not, but you can't tell a person's personality by looking at them. it's not what makes you do a double take. physical attraction is the basis for most strangers approaching each other. i'm not saying it's all that matters, so before you call me shallow, just take a deep breath and hear me out. there is NO amount of personality that can make me settle for someone who i'm not initially attracted to, so what's going on? in the words of Big L, "I don't understand it."